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What happens if I am Pregnant and?

okay so I am pregnant. My mother has already stressed she will not support the baby. money wise. and there is no room in our house since we live in a ranch style house. I am SSDI and have no job because I live in a small town. I plan on keeping the baby and have no clue what to do. I am afraid of my mom making me give the baby up. What do i do? father or the child doesnt want anything to do with it :( There is nothing more in life that i wanted to do than to be a mother. as soon as i heard it's heartbeat I knew i couldn't give it up. I am happy to say SSDI will raise their money they are currently giving me and there is a housing for teenage mother's program grant i will join so i am happy about that, i am sad my mother is not supportive. i need her! now i have no one except my dad who is supportive no matter what

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1. Get a job or the father of the unborn child has to work also.
2. Your mom can not actually make you give the baby up. If you want to keep the baby then you can. I'd say to look on craigslist for a job because I'd say you would for sure need a job. Get job huntin'! If you or anyone can help me answer my question to help me tell if my test is positive that'd be great (: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgaqvihlaDmzBULbzjuAKN4M_dw4;_ylv=3?qid=20111010001314AAXdMQl
3. wats up wit the father of th child?
4. Well, your mom can't legally make you give your baby up. Only you can sign the papers necessary for that. She can, however, threaten to kick you and your baby out unless you pay rent to live in the house (then she can't legally kick you out without proper eviction procedures). I say, take it day by day. If you've just discovered you're pregnant, your mother could very well just be angry at the prospect of yet another dependant and might change her stance as she gets used to the idea. Whatever you choose to do, please choose whetever you truly believe is in the best interest of this human being you're bringing into this world, and if you can't do enough to ensure its well-being, perhaps it would be best to seek someone who can.
5. Please never forget that your baby needs YOU! Nobody else can ever really take your place. If keeping him or her means moving out, getting a job, a new home & completely changing your lifestyle, then do it! The relationship that develops between mom and baby is incredibly beautiful! If, for some reason, you discover that you are unable to keep him/her, PLEASE contact me. I will be overjoyed to be a foster father. God loves you AND your baby! Mike H (mikeh42@yahoo.com)